The girl with a million question is back.

Something really funny happened this morning. My bf called me 'the girl with a million questions' - that was my 'tagline' for the tingkeling blog long long time ago. I couldn't help but laugh because that couldn't be more true. I am the girl with a million questions, forever questioning this and that and many more. And my questions for today are:-

1. Why must people bitch so much?
Back in Form 2 during free periods a bunch of us girls used to sit in a circle bitching about everyone we could bitch about. We call it 'mengumpat' which means talking about people over their backs. Over the years I think people just got too busy and preoccupied with their own lives to bitch that much. However, there are certain people who still do and can't seem to stop. I mean, really, these people find negativity in every damn thing. Personally, I feel that if you are bitching about people's pursuit of happiness, then you're raining on their parade. And why would you want to criticise them when you don't even know them? Too free?

2. Am I a hypocrite to bitch about people bitching?
I've had hesitation writing this. But I just had to let it out because off late there have been too much of it going around. I don't wanna keep them all in and explode one day. Anyways I don't care and I largely suspect that is why a lot of people dwell in it. So this whole negativity thing is present in nearly everybody, just that everyone 'indulge' in different amount of bitchiness. To each his own.

3. What should I do about it?
Nothing. Bitch less. Continue eating my favourite sambal belacan. Listen to fengtau music. Admit to her that her nose job is bad and she needs to revise a bad rhinoplasty result. Love my boyfriend. Put layers of makeup on. Play pool. Life goes on.

I guess I am just trying to get this out of my system. I always tell myself and people that if you don't like something/someone, then you shouldn't subject yourself to such torture because you can always distance yourself from the irritant. Precisely what I'm doing. Life is easier with this simple guideline.